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In recent months, I feel we have focused far too much on Sex Tips for Girls so let’s take a look on what men can do to improve relations in the bedroom.
There are plenty of steps men can take to improve their sex lives.
Here’s just a few of them:

1. Try a new position – experimenting can lead to discovering new thrills so try something new.

2. Designate a sex day and spend the day entertaining each other

3. Plan what you are going to do later, if now is not possible tell her what you are going to do to her.

4. Take a break, if sex is getting boring, take a break with no contact to build up the anticipation

5. Sneak in a quickie – quickies can reinvigorate relationships so take her by the hand and surprise her

6. Compete with her –playing games outside the bedroom can build up sexual tension

7. Take a trip down memory lane- remind her of some memorable events in your relationship to recreate the moment and build new memories.

8. Cuddle and massage her after sex that releases oxytocin that can make her addicted to you.

9. Let her take control – sometimes girls want to be in control

10. Introduce her to some of your friends she hasn’t met and she may see you in a new light

11. Learn something new- possibly unrelated to sex and the excitement fires up the dopamine

12. Reclaim your virginity – have a sex break then slowly build up relations over a few days till you can’t keep your hands of each other

So why not try some of these sex tips and if they don’t work why not get some sex toys from Turn Me on

So this month we’ve been scouring the globe for sex tips and it seems the people over at Cosmopolitan have been doing the same. So lets take a look and see if there are any international tips we are missing.

1. Foreplay should be long lasting – this tip is from Korea and states you should arouse each other before you even get to the bedroom. Using blindfolds and silk scarves you can get aroused by the thought of the act. Also when you move onto actual stroking and caressing there is no harm in orgasasm before intercourse infact it can make intercourse even more intense as you already feel sensitive to every touch.

2. Aussie girls along with girls from Israel and South Africa are not afraid of initiating sex. This forward approach works well and guys love not being the ones pestering for sex. Girls like the control too, so why not take your guy surprise and initiate something this weekend.

3. Let him know what you want, both French and Hungarian women speak their mind in the bedroom and Hungarian women know what they are talking about they have sex 152 times a year more often than women in other countries.

4. You don’t know what will turn you on till you try it, thats the greek philosophy, who are willing to try anal sex and bringing sex toys into the bedroom. Italians like to try new places as living at home till the age of 30 means you need imagination for your sexual encounters.

5. Think about sex more often, Spanish and Latin American girls have sex parties to discuss techniques and the latest vibrator, why not follow suit. 60% also confess that the star of their fantasies is their current partner, so take your mind back to some good times and introduce yourself to a vibrator.

So thanks to Cosmopolitan international for these globally inspired sex tips, we will add them to the list to try.

While the surveys show almost half the population have tried sex toys namely vibrators, it makes you think of the other half. Almost 50% of the population that haven’t tried anything out of the ordinary. I’m not criticising I’m sure they are perfectly happy but trying new things shouldn’t be something to be scared of, it should be embraced. With this in mind there are three things that could make your sex life a little bit more interesting.

1. Sex Toys From a vibrating egg to anal beads the possibilities are endless and new designs are constantly being introduced. I’m not suggesting you start with an eight inch dildo, maybe a small vibrating egg but the key is to experiment. Most Sex Toys are not expensive so you can make a few purchases and find what you like. If you are nervous about visiting a sex shop, buy online

2. Role Playing – It can be fun to take on a new personality, you could try some sexy costumes to make the role play a little easier to get into. Make sure you both know what you want and communicate this to each other before taking on your roles.

3. Videotaping and Photographing and webcam sex – if you are fan of watching porn, you could try making your own by introducing a camera to the bedroom, it may make you change your personality for the camera. A successor to phone sex is webcam sex which can help keep the flame alight for long distance couples.

1. Don’t be too self conscious, if you need to have the light off and worry about the shape of your bum you are being too self conscious and this can make you timid in the bedroom. He’ll love you as you are so put these worries to the back of your mind and get on with it.

2. Get in the mood, massage is not just for girls give your guy a massage to get him in the mood

3. Foreplay, most men prefer blow jobs to sex so work on your technique, tease him by kissing him everywhere then head for the main course.

4. Talk dirty, its your way of letting him know exactly what you want, if you can’t face saying it how about a naughty text.

5. Don’t forget to kiss, there are hundreds of nerve endings in your lips, use them.

6. Strip, show off your body, feel good about yourself and show him how you want to be touched

7. Take it out of the bedroom, maybe in the car or at a friends party take yourselves out of your comfort zone and it’ll increase the excitement.

8. Try sex toys, try some bondage lock him up with handcuffs and blindfold him and tease him the lack of sight will increase his sensation of touch so touch everywhere but give nothing way. Why not try some sex toys in your relationship start small with a vibrating egg and work your way up.

9. Use your hands and give him a hand job to take you back to your first experiences, use plenty of lube and it will compare to other sexual experiences.

10. Have something your amazing at, whether its oral or on top, so you can ask do you want me to do my thing and leave him begging for more

What to avoid

1. Don’t get giggly around things penis related, get to know his parts and what he likes.

2. Don’t expect him to read your mind, if you want something ask for it.

3. Don’t let your interest fade, sex can become monotonous so spice things up by adding something new rather than not doing it.

4. Leaving it all to him, you take charge, be spontaneous and he’ll appreciate it

5. Complaining about your body, he sees curves and you should do people with a more positive body image have more orgasms

 Last week the Sun reported some exiting news for all those IT workers out there. IT workers actually make the best lovers. The study taken anonymously in the UK of 2000 men and women found 82% of IT workers consider their partner’s needs above their own so are the most selfless lovers.

It also seems IT workers are not just gadget fans at work but also in the bedroom 78% claimed sex toys were part of their sex life and 8/10 said sex toys played an important role in their relationships.

Now of course if you are having trouble finding yourself a young, free and single IT worker then there are other professions to consider that are fairly beneficial to your love life such as office workers, 74% of which are selfless lovers. You may also want to take a look at healthcare workers and the unemployed.

Of course if there are selfless lovers then there must be selfish lovers and the professions you want to avoid if you want somebody to fulfil your wishes are anybody in the fitness industry who also are unlikely to use sex toys with only three of ten admitting to using them. Fitness workers may be more selfish but they do have sex more frequently at three times a week a more than IT and office workers.

So if you are looking for frequent sex bag a fitness worker and if you are looking for somebody to care for you find an IT worker who may introduce you to the world of sex toys.

A world that needs no introduction for the folks at Turnmeon who have a great range of sex toys and sexy lingerie to spice up your bedroom.

A new sex toy documentary has been released about the history of the vibrator. It is based on research by the Historian Rachel Maines. Sarah Estrella of the Sex and Relations section of the Examiner has provided a brief synopsis of the film.

The film called Passion & Power: The Technology of Orgasm follows the history of the invention of the vibrators and their relationship to the female orgasm.

The vibrators story had virtually vanished from history before Rachel Maines discovered the existence of electric vibrators in Victorian needlework magazines. Following some research she discovered the medical use of vibrators for curing the symptoms of hysteria. Women were visiting doctors with symptoms such as crankyness and reading French novels. Victorian Doctors used vibrators to relieve these symptoms.

In Victorian Times, the female orgasm was even less understood than today. Worse, it was considered taboo along with Masterbation. Even though "70% of women do not reach orgasm by penetration alone", the social, lega and religious definition of real sex is penetrative sex. This type of sex usually leads to a male orgasm but women tend to need more.

In Victorian times the lack of satisfaction with sex was labelled ‘hysteria’ and recognising it as an illness gave doctors and patients the ability to camouflage the procedure to cure it.

Today such a camouflage is no longer needed, shows such as sex and the city and Ann Summers parties mean women discuss the pro and cons of their vibrators at their social gatherings.

Popular today are a range of vibrators. Those favouring the more discreet approach offen plump for an egg vibrator. While those who want the equivalent to sex often favour a thrusting vibrator. Sex and the City and Ann Summers have always put forward the merits of the rabbit vibrators. Suitable for beginners or pros, the vibrator comes in a range of styles, usually with trademark bunny ears for clitoral stimulation.

According to the popular Australian newspaper the Sydney Morning Herald, if the country encounters a recession in the next year there will be an increase in demand for sex toys and porn films as Australians look for cheap pleasures.

Australia’s newest political party the Australian Sex Party says more people are flocking to sex shops despite a down turn on spending as they cut back on dinner out and the cinema, people are still spending on sex toys.

Economists said sinful pursuits like gambling and adult entertainment are popular during economic downturn as people need an area where they can be cheered up.

The federal government propose internet filters to block 10,000 unwanted adult sites could cost 16,000 adult industry jobs, this could wipe out the industry in the next five years.

So if Australia are experiencing this growth in sex toy spending are we seeing the same increase in the UK, well here at Turn Me On we have recently seen a 27% increase in sales. Without the proposed internet filter in the UK, sex toy retailers are bound to keep seeing more and more increase in spending.