11 posts tagged “sex toy”

Well you’ve asked him out and now you’re nervous, obviously you don’t want to introduce him to your sex toy collection on your first date, and if you take him home you probably want to make sure your rabbit vibrators are safely tucked away in your wardrobe as they probably aren’t first date topics of conversation. So what are the best ways to go about planning a first date?

Location is the first thing to consider, assuming it’s up to you think carefully about where to go, restaurants are an obvious choice but you may spend the date eating rather than talking but then if you just meet up for coffee what happens if there is a conversation lull. You could try something a bit different like an amusement park or sporting event, I’d avoid the cinema because on the whole it’s not a very social occasion if you are looking at the screen the whole time. Mind you if you go to a football match and he’s football mad you haven’t got much chance for conversation either. You could stick with the restaurant idea just avoid spaghetti, there just isn’t a sophisticated way of eating it. Your location should say something about you and the kind of person you are so try to pick something interesting.

Etiquette is of upmost importance for the first date as with a job interview first impressions do count, so good manners and good personal grooming. You will probably be a little nervous but avoid babbling incoherently, listen and pay attention and chat. You are there to have fun, so enjoy yourself.

Conversation topics for first dates should probably remain fairly general avoid anything too controversial like religion or politics. Also a list of why your past relationships failed is probably not the best start to a first date conversation.

So the date went well, do you kiss, if you think it went well lean in and go for it. If you are not too sure you can go for a hug, plus if the kiss doesn’t happen the hug could be a good save. Probably not best to go for sex on the first date. There are exceptions of course if there is some sort of primal instinct.

A few things to remember ring if you are going to be late, otherwise your date may feel stood up and switch of your phone during the date or your date may feel like you don’t want to be there. Most importantly have fun, if it doesn’t go well, there are plenty more guys out there.

Despite the wider acceptance of sex shops, the commercialisation of the porn industry and the references to sex toys on Sex and the City, people just aren’t 100% comfortable with sex shops.

If you consider a high street sex store, they exist in the UK; they are tasteful and offer people the chance to expand their tastes. Whether to buy sexy lingerie or your first vibrator it’s easy enough to find these in the shops. However what we are not considering is the embarrassment factor. The UK is full of the traditionally reserved people who are embarrassed to buy condoms never mind a 6 inch vibrator.

Entering a shop like this fills you with a sense of dread, the cahiers looking at you, the assistants walking towards you, people are judging me. Not exactly normal thoughts I admit but for those who find just entering a sex shop an embarrassing experience it could stop them on the path to sexual pleasure. Or worse they could end up panic buying the first thing they see just to get out of there.
Ok i understand this experience isn’t the same for everybody and some people are proud of their collection of 4 rabbit vibrators but I’m not talking about them. I’m talking about the shy souls who blush a light pink at the smallest mention of anything to do with sex. They are private people who don’t want anyone else to know there business.

Ok so I’ve identified the problem but what is the solution? Well in recent years the solution has been online sex toy retailers. You can browse the online store at your leisure taking the time to decide on the product to suit your needs. You feel in no rush to buy as you are in the comfort of your own home. When you do buy a product it is packaged in a discreet envelope with no business branding so the neighbours and the postman won’t know what you are up to. Turn Me On is one such sex toy retailer where you can buy sex toys and lingerie at your leisure away from prying eyes and have it delivered quickly and discreetly to your door.

The Excalibur Voyager Vibrator may have a very impressive and grandiose name but seeing as it is such an impressive sex toy, it seems somehow fitting.

So what’s so impressive about this compared to other vibrators?

Well to start it is the first interchangeable vibrator to hit the market – yes I did say interchangeable. In what way you may ask? Well it has interchangeable shafts each with its own qualities and pleasures.

First off we have the Excalibur shaft attachment. This shaft is penis shaped and styled and is 7 inches in length, but there is more, as the shaft has the infamous rabbit ears attachment, essentially making it a rabbit vibrator.

The second attachment is the Voyager. This forgoes the standard penis shape for a 6 inch beaded shaft with gradual bumps on it to provide a different sensation that mere penetration. The Voyager Vibrator shaft also has a second surprise, which comes in the form of an beaded anal vibrator and stimulator. Once again this is attached to the main shaft allowing for both vaginal and anal penetration and stimulation at the same time.

Both of the interchangeable shafts are made from soft jelly like silicone and screw easily and securely on the base unit. This base is used to control the vibrations via 6 buttons for differing speeds and vibrations to suit your needs. Each vibrating and rotating part can be controlled independently of each other and isolated or used together.

The Excalibur Voyager Vibrator is totally waterproof so it can be used in the bath or shower and is powered by 4 x AAA batteries. As always if you order your sex toy from www.turnmeon.co.uk we supply batteries with it and a sample of lubricant which we always recommend when using a sex toy, especially penetrative sex toys.

Shopzilla was recently reviewed on Itwire. Shopzilla is a shopping search site that allows customers to rate their experiences of shopping online. According to Itwire the most successful sites were those in the sex toy, cheap perfume and live insect markets. The results were gathered by point of sale and after sale surveys. The surveys checked on time delivery, customer support and ease of product selection. While most retailers did okat it seems that sex toy retailers were among those who came out on top.

It is not two hard to see why, if we look at Turn Me On’s customer ratings on Shopzilla, we can see similar results. Customers constantly rate us highly for on time delivery, want to shop with us again and comment on how helpful our customer support is. One of our main compliments is our fast and discreet service. We take all the comments we receive on Shopzilla seriously and work hard to improve further for our customers. This is how we have achieved our Gold Standard from Shopzilla.

Itwire clearly states that sex toy online stores all seem to do well when reviewed under Shopzilla so we must continue keeping customers happy and strive to stay ahead of the competition. So why not shop at TurnMeOn.co.uk today where you can find on-time delivery, fantastic customer support and join our hundreds of customers who just keep coming back for more.

Vibrators were first invented, and introduced by a man called Kelsey Stinner in the 1880’s as a means to treat Female Hysteria. Back then this was considered and affliction of sorts or congestion of the genitalia. The typical treatment was for a physician to manually stimulate and relieve the congestion (which would be considered masturbation by todays standards). However this was considered by the doctors to be time consuming hard work and thus the vibrator was created.

The first vibrators were electrically powered and provided a much quicker solution to the problem and with very little effort a women could be relieved of her condition (or achieving sexual climax as it would be know today). These vibrators were far from the products we see these days and many were very large and cumbersome.

Over the years vibrators have changed and slimmed down, and for a while they became extremely popular, with adverts for them appearing in women’s magazines and literature. It was around the 1920’s that they became a taboo subject, being associated with pornography (which they had began to appear in regularly) and they were no longer considered a normal household appliance.As science evolved, so did the understanding of medicine and female hysteria was no longer recognised as an actual medical condition. However by then vibrators were here to stay and had become a popular sex toy.

Since the early 80’s vibrators have become more and more visible in mainstream culture and since the turn of the millennium have become very common indeed. Though you won’t find them in a typical supermarket or electrical good shop, TV shows and the mainstream media have removed many of the taboos that became associated with these sex toys, mainly due to the more relaxed views on sex in general as we evolve as a society.

These days there are so many different styles, shapes and designs of vibrators you might not know where to start. They can be the traditionally penis shaped vibrators, or the infamous rabbit vibrator, there are strap on vibrators, realistic penis vibrators, thrusting vibrators and many that don’t even look like a penis at all, such as bullet vibrators.

With such a huge selection on the market it is obvious vibrators are here to stay, and though they don’t treat any medical condition these days, many people would say their vibrator is a vital part of their sexual life.

Vibrating eggs (also called love eggs) and bullet vibrators are essentially the same kind of device. Both are sex toys typically designed for female pleasure. They are intended for insertion into the vagina, or vaginal canal, and are then turned on either through a wired or wireless (depending on the model purchased) remote control.

Both vibrating eggs and vibrating bullets can be made of rubber, silicone, metal, plastic, chrome and various other materials are now available. The most important thing for a vibrating egg or vibrating bullet is its smooth sliding surface that is provided by the materials mentioned above. The sleeves can be made of soft pliable materials like jelly or silicone for creating the special pleasure with the contact. Materials are typically coloured for the users' fun and has no bearing on the pleasure given.

The reason they are considered more typical for females is due to the fact that many vibrating eggs and vibrating bullets are not safe to be placed inside the anus due to no means of retrieving them. However there are some that can be and it is always best to check product specifications to see if they are safe for this purpose. However many men do use the small vibrating devices for pressure against the penis head and testicles to add stimulation. Similarly women also use them for clitoral stimulation and even as nipple stimuli as well.

Shapes tend to be fairly standard with eggs obviously remaining a general oval/egg shape and vibrating bullets are mildly based on the bullet shape but normally are elaborated on somewhat to make them more pleasurable.

Both kinds of vibrating toy will typically have varying speeds and are low noise to make them discreet. The purpose of the wireless remote is to enable them to be used under clothing for secretive pleasure, something hard to do with the wired egg.

Turnmeon.co.uk stock a great selection of vibrating eggs and vibrating bullets, including a selection from the Dr Berman best selling range of sex toys.