As
couples get into a long term relationship, sometimes the sexual
relationship can become a bit monotonous. Sometimes to add a bit of
spice to a relationship some couples try role play. There are extremes
of role play within the BDSM scene where people play the roles in most
areas of their life. This is sometimes called the Gorean lifestyle in
reference to the Gor chronicles by John Norman. When participating in
BDSM the role play usually involves a dominant and submissive partner.
Participants usually prefer a certain scenario that they like to play
out. While full time role play is relatively rare, many people take
role play quite seriously and involve they can involve elaborate
costumes, setting the scene and even a script. There are a number of common fantasies including
Age play – where on partner takes the role of adult and one of a child, sometimes this takes the form of a baby and that form is known as infantilism.
Animal Play – where the submissive partner is treated like an animal, a dog or a horse are popular choices. This is probably due to horses using saddles and whips that the dominant partner finds gives them control.
Master and Slave
Gender play – players take on opposite genders
Goddess Worship – where the female is seen as a goddess and the male must do her bidding
Medical – role play involving doctors and nurses
Uniform – school girl, cheerleader or French maid and dominant male as authority figure
Rape Fantasy one player pretends to be coerced into sex
Owner/ inanimate object
While some of these fantasies may seem a little extreme, most people have some sort of fantasy that turns them on. Many try a fantasy without really making it a reality. While some people have a good imagination others don’t and trying to imagine your girlfriend as a nurse without the uniform can by quite challenging. Adult dressing up can alleviate these problems and help the fantasy to work. While it’s not necessary to have the right setting and a script, wearing a uniform or an outfit for some fantasy bedroom role play can certainly add to the occasion.
You don’t have to spend a fortune either and you don’t have to worry if you are plus size as there are fantasy sexy costumes for you too.
At Turnmeon.co.uk, the sex toy retailer you can find sexy costumes including french maid outfits, school girl and Nurse Uniforms and police, pilot, taxi driver and bunny costumes and if you take a look at special occasions like Christmas and Halloween you may just find a sexy Santa. So why not fulfil your dressing up and role play fantasies with TurnMeOn
