Using
a vibrator
isn’t exactly rocket science, but if you’re looking for a few helpful hints
here is a beginner’s guide for women on how to use one.
Take your
vibrator
out of the package and get to know how it works and what kind of batteries it
takes. Play with the buttons and switches and find out how many speeds and
settings it has.
Wash your vibrator well before using it. Check to ensure it is waterproof and
always follow the cleaning instructions provided.
Try rubbing it against your skin, without turning it on at first. See how it
feels and try rubbing it against differing areas of your body such as your
hands, legs even your stomach.
Leaving the lights on can help, though you can achieve the same results with
them off, seeing what is going on can be beneficial to start.
Privacy is important, if needs be lock the bedroom door and put on some music
to cover any noises.
Once you do turn it on it is best to once again run it over your skin see how
it feels now that it is vibrating. Many people find the vibrating sensation
against the skin and additional stimulation, and many have specific areas the
like to run the vibrator against such as nipples, inner thighs, stomach and so
on.
Most women use
vibrators
for clitoral stimulation rather than penetration and that is the best place to
begin once you are ready. Try rubbing it in varying ways, motions and parts of
the clitoris. You may find certain areas more sensitive than others and you
need to find your own optimal sensitive spots. Take your time, there is no rush
so don’t be in a rush to move it too quickly from one area to the next as it
may take a little time for the sensations to kick in.
Try the different sped settings, these can make all the difference, you may
find some too harsh, or too soft for your needs, and thus experimentation is
the key.
Apply different amounts of pressure to areas you get heightened pleasure from.
There is nor rule on how gentle or hard you should be, and it varies from
person to person.
Thought the tip of a vibrator is the typical thing to use, don’t pass up the
chance to se if using the sides can give better results, as this can disperse
the vibrations to a wider area, giving stimulation to the areas surrounding the
clitoris.
Once comfortable you may want to try penetration with your vibrator. It is
important to note many women never go this far, and simply use it for clitoral
stimulation and for this purpose many new vibrators such as bullet vibrators
have been created specifically. If you are wishing to try penetration it is
always advised to use
lubrication (check
the instructions to see which types of
lube are safe to
use with your
sex toy) and a condom (
condoms are less
important if it will only be you using it, but worth remembering).
Penetration is best initiated slowly and it helps to get aroused initially by
clitoral stimulation. Penetration can help many women find and stimulate the
g-spot. It is also theorised that nerve endings in the cervix respond to
stimulation and pressure. Once you have reached penetration try pressing the
vibrator into different directions as this can stimulate other areas.
Continue slowly and enjoy yourself, find what kind of stimulation is best for
you, try combinations to maximise your pleasure. Once finished, clean the sex
toy thoroughly following the guidelines given with the product and make sure to
remove the batteries to avoid them running down quicker.
Once you are used to your vibrator it can be worthwhile to try out other types
and designs to see what is best suited to you. There are a huge range of
different vibrators available at www.turnmeon.co.uk from
rabbit vibrators
to
bullet vibrators,
realistic penis
vibrators to
g
spot vibrators, so have a look and enjoy!