3 posts tagged “handcuffs”

1. Don’t be too self conscious, if you need to have the light off and worry about the shape of your bum you are being too self conscious and this can make you timid in the bedroom. He’ll love you as you are so put these worries to the back of your mind and get on with it.

2. Get in the mood, massage is not just for girls give your guy a massage to get him in the mood

3. Foreplay, most men prefer blow jobs to sex so work on your technique, tease him by kissing him everywhere then head for the main course.

4. Talk dirty, its your way of letting him know exactly what you want, if you can’t face saying it how about a naughty text.

5. Don’t forget to kiss, there are hundreds of nerve endings in your lips, use them.

6. Strip, show off your body, feel good about yourself and show him how you want to be touched

7. Take it out of the bedroom, maybe in the car or at a friends party take yourselves out of your comfort zone and it’ll increase the excitement.

8. Try sex toys, try some bondage lock him up with handcuffs and blindfold him and tease him the lack of sight will increase his sensation of touch so touch everywhere but give nothing way. Why not try some sex toys in your relationship start small with a vibrating egg and work your way up.

9. Use your hands and give him a hand job to take you back to your first experiences, use plenty of lube and it will compare to other sexual experiences.

10. Have something your amazing at, whether its oral or on top, so you can ask do you want me to do my thing and leave him begging for more

What to avoid

1. Don’t get giggly around things penis related, get to know his parts and what he likes.

2. Don’t expect him to read your mind, if you want something ask for it.

3. Don’t let your interest fade, sex can become monotonous so spice things up by adding something new rather than not doing it.

4. Leaving it all to him, you take charge, be spontaneous and he’ll appreciate it

5. Complaining about your body, he sees curves and you should do people with a more positive body image have more orgasms

Ever wanted to try a little bondage but worried about the expense or not sure where to start. The Fetish Fantasy bedroom bondage kit has everything you need to be adventurous

Many people have some form of sexual fantasy, some like to dress up, others like to dominate, some like to be dominated. When you dress up there are lots of options available to really get into role-play, you could dress up as naughty schoolgirl and a strict teacher. Threesomes are an obvious sexual fantasy for most men but the ménage à trois is also popular with ladies although they do prefer their man to look but not touch when there is an another lady involved. Another fantasy is watching other couples in the act and many also like the idea of being watched, or caught, so fantasize about sex in public places.

Most of these fantasies are just that, a fantasy, unlikely ever to be made reality but that doesn’t have to be the case. The Fetish Fantasy Kit allows you to fulfil your fantasies by giving you the equipment to see if bondage really is for you.

This bedroom bondage comes complete with wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a collar, and leash and blindfold mask as well as a spanking paddle with which you can torment your partner while she craves more. The cuffs come in a combination of shiny black PVC and purple cheetah pattern velvet. This means it looks hot but it is still soft on her skin.

So if you are looking to fulfil your bondage fantasies or even some of the others I have mentioned, why not check out www.turnmeon.co.uk for a wide range of sex toys and bondage equipment.

A basic summary would be that bondage involves people being tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure. Most people consider it a more extreme sexual practice, and not the kind of thing ‘normal’ people would do.

However…

The fact that mainstream ‘high street’ adult shops stock varying degrees of bondage equipment suggests that many ‘normal’ couples incorporate elements of bondage into their sex lives at some point in their relationships.

The use of bondage within couples tends to be very different from and separate from that normally associated with BDSM. Couples’ private bondage games largely take place behind closed doors, and constitute foreplay, usually as a prelude to the couple having sex. This is usually known as ‘bedroom bondage’.

There may or may not be some elements of dominance and submission involved as part of role play, but sadism and/or masochism rarely play any part unless the couple already have such leanings. This shows how bedroom bondage contrasts with activity in the BDSM subculture, where the emphasis is often more on bondage for its own sake.
Bedroom bondage usually involves one partner being voluntarily tied-up or put into restraints (such as handcuffs or bondage ropes) by the other, who then either sexually pleasures the tied partner (using manual masturbation, oral sex, vibrating sex toys etc.) or has sex with them while they are restrained, or of course both. Typical sex toys used include dildos, vibrators butt plugs and others. Leather and PVC lingerie and clothing is often used in conjunction with bedroom bondage, as are bondage whips and spanking paddles, though these are normally to enhance the feeling of trust as opposed to being used to inflict actual pain.

The tied partner may derive pleasure from being in a largely ‘helpless’ predicament in the hands of a trusted partner, and the other may enjoy the mild domination involved in having their partner in that predicament. Masks and blindfolds often add to this sensation greatly, meaning the ‘helpless’ partner cannot see what is going on around them. Either way, many established couples find playing bondage games relationship-affirming, as they both require and imply a level of trust between the partners that is not normally found within more casual relationships, as well as being a shared ‘private’ facet of their sex life that most couples prefer to keep just between the two of them.