4 posts tagged “couples”

In contrast to sex tips part one these sex tips come from Sex Lives of Wives by Holly Hollenbeck. Her book written in 2008 provides a more up to date look at how to improve your sex life.
The previous book encourages husband avoidance and arguments to avoid sex whereas Holly suggests initiating sex and been generally enthusiastic about your sex life. Saying no is discouraged and talking of chores is a no no.

Try role play using sound effects and alternating between fast and slow and romantic lovemaking. You should make sure you appreciate male genitals, touch it stroke it and play with it. Compliment your man’s technique and let him know what you like.

According to Holly it is important to tune into each others needs like lubricant. For example you could try sex toys. This could involve telling each other dirty stories and fantasies and then trying to act on fantasies like bondage. You could try some different forms of role play or try unusual locations. Or even recreate old times like your first time or go on a second honeymoon.

To be honest I’m not sure either of the books have it completely right, the first book is about keeping the woman happy and the second book about keeping the man happy. A successful relationship should be about keeping both partners happy involving give and take and compromise and of course using sex toys for couples from Turn Me On.

A Sunday trip to the newsagents on the 26th of October and the Observer brought me a whole new wealth of knowledge. The Observer performed a sex poll on UK citizens and the results are very revealing. In an industry such as Turn Me On it is always interesting to see who our customers are.

In relation to sex toys, 45% of Britons have used sex aids, with a huge 67% of 25-34 year olds claiming to have tried them. They are not as popular with the older generation only 11% have tried them. And it’s clearly colder up north as 55% of Britons have used them up there, 10% more than the national average so they must be keeping warm under the sheets.

It seems singles are more at ease than married couples with using sex toys. 54% of singles used them as compared to 44% of married couples. This needn’t be the case sex toys aren’t just for singles; Turn Me On has a great range of sex toys for couples.

You may think of sex toys as toys for women but the survey found that among the 45% that have used them the genders are equal. Both men and women are as likely to try a sex aid.

In the same magazine an article revealed a nurse’s experiences. A man arrived at the hospital with a potato up his bum, a result of hanging curtains naked, this resulted in surgery. It could all have been avoided with a butt plug and some lubricant. It is better to buy something specially designed for anal insertion than to insert everyday objects up there.

So if you want to be part of the 45% of the population that have tried butt plugs why not check out TurnMeOn for some inspiration and of course a great range of sex toys.

Staying in is officially the new going out. As thoughts turn to money worries, the pricey bar in town no longer seems a viable option for Saturday night. The Daily Star has reported a surge in pregnancy tests from pharmacies and essentially a baby boom. Those up for fun but avoiding the bundles of joy which are quite costly in themselves are buying sex toys to spice up a cash strapped home life.
While most businesses are seeing a decline in sales, sex toy retailers are reporting an increase. Even here at TurnMeOn we have seen about a 27% increase in sales. This increase is in contrast to other areas within the retail industry that have seen a drop in their sales and a fighting to stay afloat.

We have seen the sharpest upturn in sales within the toys for couples. As couples spend more and more time with each other they are looking for something they can both use to make bedroom life more fun. If we look at sex toys for men, there are sex dolls, penis pumps and extenders, some toys here can be used in a couple but they are not designed as such. Women’s sex toys are usually some form of vibrator or dildo again they can be used in a couple but sometimes men can get jealous of the vibrator. So what do we mean by couples toys, well toys like vibrating eggs are always popular with couples as are toys that can be used to stimulate him or her like the Nexus Dual vibrating massager. Anything with a remote control gives him control over her pleasure so they are always popular with couples. Cock rings improve sex for both him and her so work well with couples. These Couples sex toys are an ideal way to improve bedroom antics and also won’t break the bank when money is tight.

Price-Waterhouse and Coopers predicted in a recent survey that meals out and trips to the pub would be the first luxury to go in a recession. It seems couples are proving them right. So couples are turning to each other instead of the pub for entertainment. This trend could mean we are heading towards a recession but rather than the doom and gloom predicted in the media, at least the bedroom looks like it has a brighter future.

So why not follow the trend, cancel your night down the pub and go to TurnMeon and buy a new sex toy to spice up your sex life.

Sex Toys come in all shapes and sizes these days. Hardly surprising as the sex toy industry, along with the sex industry in general is a booming business. Sex toys are no longer just sold in dingy and seedy shops that people feel embarrasses about going into. These days there are mainstream stores in the high street, online specialists and superstores; you can even buy sex toys from nightclub vending machines, proving that they are becoming more and more widely accepted in today’s society.

Once stereotyped as either a pleasure for single bored women, or men who can’t get a girlfriend, sex toys have evolved to be more than that, and once facet of this evolution is that more and more sex toys are being used by couples in their sex lives.

Keeping things fresh and exciting in the bedroom is one of the most difficult things for many couples, so the introduction of sex aids and sex toys into the bedroom can be the spice that is needed.

Some couples use sex toy to enhance there already healthy sex live, others use them to rekindle a spark, others use them for necessity (perhaps a medical condition); that’s the good thing, sexy toys don’t discriminate, they are usable for whatever your needs or desires.

Examples of sex toys aimed at couples, as opposed to those made more specifically for a man or woman to use alone (though these are also usable within the couples relationship as well), could be sex swings (to provide a range of new positions for sexual intercourse), strap on dildos and vibrators (for her or him), penis sleeves and extenders (aimed to provide extra length, girth and a ribbed or nubbed exterior for extra penetrative pleasure) as well as things such as handcuffs and simple bedroom bondage toys.

Favourites are toys such as remote control vibrators which give the control over the pleasure and stimulation to whomever has the remote and vibrating cock rings which add pleasure for the male and the female with additions such as a clitoral stimulator to provide pleasure as penetration is made.

Below are a few examples of sex toys for couples that you can buy from adult superstore TurnMeOn.co.uk.

The Touchmatic Arouser & The Ultra 7 Remote Control Vibrating Egg