9 posts from June 2009

Sex toy store’s certainly aren’t what they used to be, no longer do you have to travel to that side of town and make sure you have id as you enter the empty window display shop with blacked out windows and feel uncomfortable about where you were what you were doing. Now you can shop online and even if you do shop in town, shops like Anne Summers are a lot more socially accepted. The result of this online age and the acceptance of sex goods shops is that there are now many sex toy shops to choose from.

So how is the best way to pick your adult sex toy shop that you can trust to keep you happy for years to come?

Customer Service – Good sex toy retailers will always have a manned order line or customer service line and lots of ways for you to get in touch. It’s in the retailers interest to provide the best service to a customer so they return and order some more. So look out for retailers with a contact number.

Delivery Policy- If you don’t want the postman to know what you are up to make sure your retailer delivers in discreet packaging and not some heavily branded envelope.

Return policy- If a good is faulty you should be able to return it, you are unlikely to be able to return used items just because you don’t like them but there should be adequate warning on the packaging and site about what you can and can’t do. Lingerie can be tried on from some sites if you wear a layer between you and the clothing.

Quality Store – Look for a site that has goods at a wide range of prices, this way you can be sure you are getting the best deal.

Well its time to reflect if Turn Me on meet these criteria. They have a contact number with a call operator, a discreet delivery policy, a friendly returns policy and a wide range of products at a variety of prices.

Well you’ve asked him out and now you’re nervous, obviously you don’t want to introduce him to your sex toy collection on your first date, and if you take him home you probably want to make sure your rabbit vibrators are safely tucked away in your wardrobe as they probably aren’t first date topics of conversation. So what are the best ways to go about planning a first date?

Location is the first thing to consider, assuming it’s up to you think carefully about where to go, restaurants are an obvious choice but you may spend the date eating rather than talking but then if you just meet up for coffee what happens if there is a conversation lull. You could try something a bit different like an amusement park or sporting event, I’d avoid the cinema because on the whole it’s not a very social occasion if you are looking at the screen the whole time. Mind you if you go to a football match and he’s football mad you haven’t got much chance for conversation either. You could stick with the restaurant idea just avoid spaghetti, there just isn’t a sophisticated way of eating it. Your location should say something about you and the kind of person you are so try to pick something interesting.

Etiquette is of upmost importance for the first date as with a job interview first impressions do count, so good manners and good personal grooming. You will probably be a little nervous but avoid babbling incoherently, listen and pay attention and chat. You are there to have fun, so enjoy yourself.

Conversation topics for first dates should probably remain fairly general avoid anything too controversial like religion or politics. Also a list of why your past relationships failed is probably not the best start to a first date conversation.

So the date went well, do you kiss, if you think it went well lean in and go for it. If you are not too sure you can go for a hug, plus if the kiss doesn’t happen the hug could be a good save. Probably not best to go for sex on the first date. There are exceptions of course if there is some sort of primal instinct.

A few things to remember ring if you are going to be late, otherwise your date may feel stood up and switch of your phone during the date or your date may feel like you don’t want to be there. Most importantly have fun, if it doesn’t go well, there are plenty more guys out there.

While the surveys show almost half the population have tried sex toys namely vibrators, it makes you think of the other half. Almost 50% of the population that haven’t tried anything out of the ordinary. I’m not criticising I’m sure they are perfectly happy but trying new things shouldn’t be something to be scared of, it should be embraced. With this in mind there are three things that could make your sex life a little bit more interesting.

1. Sex Toys From a vibrating egg to anal beads the possibilities are endless and new designs are constantly being introduced. I’m not suggesting you start with an eight inch dildo, maybe a small vibrating egg but the key is to experiment. Most Sex Toys are not expensive so you can make a few purchases and find what you like. If you are nervous about visiting a sex shop, buy online

2. Role Playing – It can be fun to take on a new personality, you could try some sexy costumes to make the role play a little easier to get into. Make sure you both know what you want and communicate this to each other before taking on your roles.

3. Videotaping and Photographing and webcam sex – if you are fan of watching porn, you could try making your own by introducing a camera to the bedroom, it may make you change your personality for the camera. A successor to phone sex is webcam sex which can help keep the flame alight for long distance couples.

1. Don’t be too self conscious, if you need to have the light off and worry about the shape of your bum you are being too self conscious and this can make you timid in the bedroom. He’ll love you as you are so put these worries to the back of your mind and get on with it.

2. Get in the mood, massage is not just for girls give your guy a massage to get him in the mood

3. Foreplay, most men prefer blow jobs to sex so work on your technique, tease him by kissing him everywhere then head for the main course.

4. Talk dirty, its your way of letting him know exactly what you want, if you can’t face saying it how about a naughty text.

5. Don’t forget to kiss, there are hundreds of nerve endings in your lips, use them.

6. Strip, show off your body, feel good about yourself and show him how you want to be touched

7. Take it out of the bedroom, maybe in the car or at a friends party take yourselves out of your comfort zone and it’ll increase the excitement.

8. Try sex toys, try some bondage lock him up with handcuffs and blindfold him and tease him the lack of sight will increase his sensation of touch so touch everywhere but give nothing way. Why not try some sex toys in your relationship start small with a vibrating egg and work your way up.

9. Use your hands and give him a hand job to take you back to your first experiences, use plenty of lube and it will compare to other sexual experiences.

10. Have something your amazing at, whether its oral or on top, so you can ask do you want me to do my thing and leave him begging for more

What to avoid

1. Don’t get giggly around things penis related, get to know his parts and what he likes.

2. Don’t expect him to read your mind, if you want something ask for it.

3. Don’t let your interest fade, sex can become monotonous so spice things up by adding something new rather than not doing it.

4. Leaving it all to him, you take charge, be spontaneous and he’ll appreciate it

5. Complaining about your body, he sees curves and you should do people with a more positive body image have more orgasms

It’s that time of year again when everyone’s attention is turned to Big Brother and the new housemates. This year has again challenged the traditional format with housemates having to earn their place in the house.

The challenges seem fairly bizarre with two contestants legally changing their names to halfwit and dogface. The remaining non housemates also tried to win a place in the house with a biscuit dunking competiton. Cairon won with a digestive lasting 25.5 seconds, his win he is attributing to the choice of biscuit.

Dogface , formally known as Sophie Reade once kept a playboy shoot a secret from her parents. She featured in the online edition of Playboy dressed in sexy lingerie. Her name changing has got her into the house and hopefully the playboy stunt won’t have bothered her parents too much
Dogface says her proudest achievement was failing all her GCSE’s and she dislikes spiders, sand and boring people. She did want to be an air hostess buy realised she didn’t like flying.
So who else makes up this year’s bunch? Well we have Angel a Professional Russian Boxer, Cairon is a student born in London and raised in America, Charlie’s claim to fame is winning Mr Gay Newcastle and he enjoys clubbing. Halfwit’s from a privileged background and wants to be a politician. Karly made it into FHM’s top 100 high street honey’s but unfortunately it got her fired. Kris is a curly haired chap looking for love. Lisa is a sexual predator looking for a confidence boost. Marcus is a ladies’ man who is single and has a mullet. Pretty, sporty and successful describes Noirin. Brazilian Rodrigo has some bad habits but likes to be close to people. Safia is independent and confident but is known as a bit of a bitch. Siavesh is an events organiser, into fashion and according to himself defines cool. Sophia is single and short and has a seize the day attitude. Sree is an Indian business student and happy.

So now we know the housemates let’s watch and wait as more revelations unfold, maybe something more exciting than a sexy lingerie photo shoot.