Adding a Cheeky Sting to Your Sex Life - Spanking Paddles & Whips

As mentioned in a previous blog article, the progress within the bedroom bondage fantasy tends to start with the bondage aspect of tying up one partner, allowing one to dominate the other. But as these fantasies evolve, other facets are introduced.

Spanking is a very common fantasy, especially for those who find domination or submission a sexual turn on. In its most simplistic form it involves slapping a bare hand against the bare buttocks. This is never typically performed to inflict grievous pain, and is more a slap that gives a stinging sensation. The fantasy is typically steeped in the “naughty girl” (or “naughty boy”) syndrome.

This fantasy of spanking can be added to by introducing simple spanking sex toys into the scenario. Typical instances include paddles for actual spanking, and whips for a variation of the theme.

Spanking paddles come in all shapes and sizes, but all are created to fulfil that primary purpose – spanking. Differences between spanking paddles can include size, shape and texture, and some even have extras such as the handle being fashioned into a penis-shape allowing it to be inserted into the female (or male) receiving the punishment. Materials that are popular include leather spanking paddles and suede spanking paddles.

Whips are different in that they do not provide what you may call traditional spanking. However like spanking, whipping your partner is rarely for pain and is to offer a different sensation to a traditional paddle. Also it is easier to apply light whipping strokes to other parts of the body than with a paddle which is typically designed for the buttocks.

Sex toy whips are not designed to inflict serious pain, but give a mild stinging sensation when used. As with paddles, sex whips come in various shapes and sizes and materials vary from leather whips to latex whips and suede whips. Design can vary from single cord whips to multiple-thong whips (similar to the famous cat-o-nine tails), and many have a dildo or fake penis as part of the handle of the whip making it a more versatile sex toy.

So if you are looking to spice up your bedroom bondage sessions and include something more devilish, try out a spanking paddles or sex whip from turnmeon.co.uk.